In the day of Nero, Christians were the brunt of intense and inhumane persecution. Although historians suspect that Nero is the one who set fire to Rome, he managed to convince society that Christians were responsible.
In turn, Christians were dipped in tar and burned alive. The human torches were used for Nero’s outdoor parties. Oh my heart.
In the midst of such a turbulent time, Peter wrote these instructions.
Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. (1 Peter 3:8-9 NIV)
Intense stress brings out either the best of the worst in people. Peter made it clear that, no matter what, Believers should go about doing good.
The calling of every Believer is to be a blessing to everyone we meet. Everyone. Even the ones who reject us, persecute us, and despise us.
What does it mean to be a blessing?
Well, the thesaurus has lots of interesting synonyms: benefit, help, service, profit, gain, advantage, favor, gift, windfall, kindness, boon, good fortune, bounty, godsend, manna from heaven.
Speak goodness into the lives of everyone. Everyone.
Energizing words. Encouraging words. Empathetic words.
Can you imagine what this world would be like if every Believer spoke only words that benefitted others?
No snarky speech. No critical comments. No insensitive insinuations.
If Believers took the “be a blessing” challenge, our homes would be transformed, our careers would be more purposeful and meaningful, and our churches would be places where seekers feel drawn.
Strangers would become VIPs because we’d always be looking for someone to whom we could be a blessing. The receptionist at the doctor’s office. The server at a restaurant. The cashier at the Circle K. The frazzled mom in the check-out line.
Every moment an opportunity to love, to bless, to be the heart of Christ.
Pray for others and let them know you did.
While speaking goodness into the lives of people is a huge step in the right direction, we can’t stop there.
Prayer goes beyond our human capacity to care. It allows us to hold others up to the heart of God.
And people need that more than anything else.
At the Heart of Mesa, we have “I prayed for you today” cards we can share with strangers the Lord places in our path.
Pastor Gary shared a couple of examples from just last week.
He gave a prayer card to the waiting room attendant at the hospital. In the midst of her task of tending to worried patients and their families, Gary took the time to tend to her.
He gave a prayer card to a weary woman at the table next to him at Subway. I suspect she felt a little less weary after that.
As Gary shared his experiences, I remembered one of my own from decades ago…in a Subway no less.
I ordered my food, and, as I paid, I heard the Lord whisper to my spirit. Tell her I love her.
She handed me my change, and I turned and left the store. She’ll think I’m a nut job, Lord.
The walk to my car felt like a mile. Go back in there and tell her I love her, Lee. She needs to hear it.
Feeling foolish, I sighed and strode back into the sandwich shop.
The woman looked up from her work and gave me a smile. “I’m sorry…did I forget to give you napkins?” she asked.
“Uh…no. You gave me everything I need. I…uh…I just had to come back in here to tell you something.”
“Ok…what’s that?” she asked with raised eyebrows.
“Well, God told me to tell you that He loves you.”
She stood there speechless for what seemed like five minutes. “I can’t believe you came back in here to tell me that.” Her eyes filled with tears and she explained, “I’m going through a really tough time, and just this morning, I asked the Lord to show me that He’s there for me. He gave me proof through you. Thank you so much.”
I pretty much floated back to my car.
Every, single day holds the potential for floating! Every time we bless others in the name of Christ, we will receive the blessing of obedience, the blessing of being His instrument of love, the blessing of doing the right thing.
But what if our attempts to bless go unappreciated and unreceived?
What if people pay back our kindness with insults?
Well, it’s bound to happen. Some people are so eaten up with bitterness that it’s hard for them to receive anything good.
They need us to understand, to forgive, and to keep on loving.
While they may not receive our words of kindness, they may receive the next one from someone else. Every blessing they receive will knock out a brick from the wall around their hearts.
Pastor Gary challenged us to pray for and minister to one stranger a day.
I’m in…what about you?
Lord, Open the eyes of my heart to see who You want me to love on each day. Who can I bless? Who can I pray for? Who can I share hope with? Who needs to hear that You love them? Make me a blessing.










